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Why you should be using weights

August 20, 2014

Weight lifting does more than just build muscle.  And no, it doesn’t make you bulky.  Here’s why you should be using weights in your workouts.
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I started lifting weights in high school when I was running cross country.  It was part of our training and I loved it (more than the actual running part).  I also took a few weight lifting classes in high school as well.  I was strong and I lifted a lot.  In the end I learned a lot about lifting and why it’s an important part of a well-rounded fitness program. 

Now a days I alternate between heavy lifting sessions and HIIT workouts.  I do a lot of body weight work and run a bit more than I have previously, but I always incorporate weights into my weekly workouts.I have heard women say many times over the years that they don’t want to lift weights because they don’t want to “get bulky.”  Whatever that means.   I just shake my head when I hear this.  These poor women have obviously been misled over the years to think that lifting weights = bulky muscles.  In fact it’s pretty common for women to think this, which always surprises me.  

Let me show you a photo.
 
 
 
That is me at our old gym about 6 months after having Little A.  I was in the best shape I’d been in since high school in this photo.  And I was lifting a lot of weights.  A lot.  A lot of kettlebells, dumbbells, slam balls, trap bars, barbells, etc.  And I was slimmer than I had been in years.  I was stronger and slimmer all thanks to lifting weights (and nutrition of course).  


Here are a few reasons why you should be using weights in your workouts.

 
Weightlifting doesn’t put on bulk

How did this myth ever get started?  It is so much harder for women to “bulk up” than it is for men.  We don’t have the appropriate testosterone levels to get our bodies to look like bodybuilders.  In fact, women who seem to get “bulky” from lifting are probably eating a high calorie diet and not burning enough calories throughout the day, so they are packing on muscle underneath layers of fat, resulting in a more bulky look.  If you eat a healthy diet in conjunction with weight training, your muscle definition will shine through!

 

Weightlifting strengthens bones 

Lifting weights helps prevent osteoporosis and osteoporosis related fractures later in life. Studies have shown that lifting weights can actually increase your bone density.  Your bones will thank you later in life when you don’t need a walker to get around every day.

Weightlifting burns fat and more calories 
The more muscle you have the more calories and fat your body will burn throughout the day.  Plain and simple.  More muscle = more calorie burn.  Not only that, but when you have completed a weight lifting workout, your body will continue to burn more calories because it needs to repair the muscle fibers.  When you weight train, your body also burns a greater percentage of calories from fat compared to someone who just runs, does the elliptical or takes a spin class.  I still have days where I like to go for long runs and really enjoy doing cardio, so I like to mix cardio into my weight lifting days by doing shuttle sprints, jumping jacks, jumping rope.
Also consider that it takes more energy to sustain muscle mass than it does fat.  So the more muscle you have the higher your metabolism will be.  

Weightlifting will make you look better in clothes
I have definitely had those times in my life where I wore the same size as I did when I was fit, but me clothes just didn’t look the same on my body (especially white skinny jeans.  Those things are not at all forgiving.).  I weighed the same but had low muscle tone.  When you lift weights, you get more definition in your thighs, back, arms and shoulders; you’ll have a flatter stomach (no muffin top!) and more muscle in your booty.  You’ll look better in your jeans and that fitted dress you’ve been putting off wearing until you “lose some weight.”  I love to wear tanks when my arms and shoulders look tone.  


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Incorporating weight training into your weekly exercise program is easy.  
* Add some 5-10 pound dumbbells with your lunges.  Or better yet, do bicep curls while doing your lunges.  More bang for your buck!  
* Use a 15-30 pound dumbbell or kettlebell when you’re doing your squats (hold the weight chest high and remember to hold your core when you squat down, knees behind your toes.).  
* 5-10 pound push presses are a great exercise for your shoulders and core.  
* Make sure you focus on your form.  You don’t have to do 100 lunges or 100 bicep curls to get fit.  Focus on your form and a steady pace and you’ll start to see results in a few weeks.  My legs change quickly when I incorporate a few more lunges with weights into my routine.

You also don’t need a lot of weight to start.  If you’re new to weight training, get yourself some 5 pound dumbbells and use those 3-4 times a week.  Once an exercise starts to feel easy, it’s time to increase your weight in 5-10 pound increments.  You’ll be bench pressing 100 pounds in no time!

Have a great day!

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Comments

  1. Jaelan @ Making Mrs. M says: August 20, 2014 at 1:02 pm

    This is so awesome. YES! I also shake my head when women say they “don’t want to get bulky”. I always assure them that unless they EAT like a body builder, they’re not going to bulk (and normal people DON’T eat like body builders).

    These are great points. I need to get back to weight lifting. I loved it until I dropped a plate on my foot and fractured it. :-/

  2. Joey says: August 20, 2014 at 1:09 pm

    I agree with this 100%! I used to lift quite a bit actually, and for no apparent reason. I just had access to some weights and would do a few reps while watching TV because…well, why not? But then I stopped. Last night when I got back from a run I caught site of some of our weights and thought “hey, I should use those again sometime.” Your post just drove the point home ha!

  3. Kelli @ A Deeper Joy says: August 20, 2014 at 5:29 pm

    I totally agree with all of this! Not that I’m good about doing it right now but weights only make you bulky if you’re doing a ton of weight, I think. They’ve really toned up my arms and yes, my legs look different quickly just from doing some lunges. I need to do them more often. And you looked great after having Little A and still do!

  4. Jennifer - The Deliberate Mom says: August 20, 2014 at 12:46 pm

    Oooh, fabulous post Tiffany! Last year when I was in therapy, my exercise therapist dispelled that misconception that I too, had. She told me that the toning I wanted to achieve couldn’t happen unless I was doing cardio and weights. Ummm, yeah. I feel dense now that I used to think I could get that great body simply by doing an hour of cardio and crunches daily.

    That picture of you is HOT! You’re doing one of my favourite exercises too… the dumbell row! Sweet.

    Thanks for sharing. I’m pinning this to my “Work It Out” board!

    Wishing you a lovely day.
    xoxo

  5. Bekah Bruce says: August 20, 2014 at 1:24 pm

    I seriously bow down to you right now! YES x100!!! This message needs to get out to women everywhere! When I added weights to my workouts that is when my body changed and actually leaned out. I am not a huge cardio fan (although I do enjoy running) so love that weight lifting is so effective!! Thanks so much for educating us all today! 🙂

    • Tiffany {A Touch of Grace} says: August 20, 2014 at 2:47 pm

      You are so funny Bekah! I used to do almost the opposite, only weights and little to no cardio. I’ve found a good balance now and really enjoy doing both. So glad you liked the post. 🙂

  6. Caroline says: August 20, 2014 at 1:25 pm

    Yay!! I love other woman who are passionate about lifting!! One of my favorite things to do!!!! I love working out, especially lifting – you know I love this post 😉 Get it girl!

  7. Carly Blogs Here says: August 20, 2014 at 2:03 pm

    You look amazing right after your baby! I loved this post and how informative it was– I’ve done very little with weights (I don’t do much with working out at all, really). I can’t think of what one it is, but one of the Jillian Michaels DVDs incorporates weights and whenever I use them I feel so sore– in a good way!

  8. Jessica Dimas says: August 21, 2014 at 7:27 am

    You are seriously so awesome, I am really appreciating you sharing all of your exercise knowledge! Especially because I feel lame, I don’t know which exercises are any good or even how to incorporate weights into something like lunges, so thanks for that! I’ve been learning over the last few years that weight lifting is where it’s at for a slim, toned body! Have you heard of the new workout program PiYo? What do you think of it?

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